Dhamma Dena Meditation Center: Online Queer Self-Retreat with Arinna Weisman, November 2021 (Week 2) Dharma talk by Arinna Weisman on the value of contemplating death as an antidote to ownership in our relationships: "when we move into habitual relationships with our bodies, or our thoughts, or our feelings, or pleasant and unpleasant, any aspect of our life — when it's habitual, we have moved into the relationship of enclosing, of owning [...] and in that ownership — automatically because there's no respect and love — there's a harming done, there's suffering done."